[A touch of proper direction like nagging, and post-it-notes, and the equally stubborn refusal to do things for them. Eventually something has to give. He has to start vacuuming his room someday, right?]

[Maybe not.]

Huh? Believing in people, isn't the same as actively helping them. I can't reach out to everyone, I am only one person! But I can believe in myself. And in my friends! If I help them, and they help their friends.... We can do anything!